5 steps to being Wealthy Now

Here is a quick lesson on being RICHER today.

The richest person is not the person who has the most but who needs the least.

Here is my quick list to being wealthy NOW.

1. Want less.
Most people live the habit of always wanting more. They live in a constant state of WANT.
Can you relate to this feeling of always wanting?
Take a true inventory of everything in your life and you will see all the STUFF you wanted but never really used. Most homes are filled with useless STUFF. How much richer would you be today if you didn't WANT so much useless STUFF? Learn from this lesson and decide to WANT less as you move forward in life. Wanting is a sign that you feel LACK in your life. Wanting without truly needing is what will keep you POOR.
Wake up knowing that you already have everything.
Free yourself of WANT and YOU will be RICHER TODAY!

2. Be grateful.
Live a life of gratitude and you will always feel and be rich.
Think of all you have right now. Wake up daily and be grateful for everything you have in your life.
People that appreciate what they have are always happier and less likely to feel LACK in their life.
When you are grateful you are blessed with a smile on your face. It is impossible to be grateful and depressed at the same time. People become depressed because they never learned to be grateful.
I have always said that the cure for depression is learning to be grateful for all you have in life.
You have the ability to see.
You have the ability to hear.
You have the ability to walk.
You have the ability to hold and hug.
You have the ability to think.
You have the ability to choose.
You were BORN with so much to be grateful for.
Be grateful and USE what you already possess and you will receive more.
Be grateful and you will be RICHER TODAY!

3. Help someone else daily.
Helping others daily is one of the most powerful things we can ever do.
Think about it this way.
You must already be rich today to help someone else today.
You don't need money to help others.
You can help with your TIME.
You can help with your KNOWLEDGE.
You can help with your EXPERIENCE.
You can help with your ADVICE.
You can help with your KINDNESS.
You can help with your CARING.
You can help with your ATTENTION.
You can help with your GIVING.
You can help with your LOVE.
YOU CAN HELP.
Here is the lesson with helping others; know that you always have something to give and you already possess something that will help.
When you HELP others YOU will be blessed and you will be RICHER TODAY!

4. Know who you are.
Who are you?
How much are you worth?
I ask myself these question daily.
My answer is always; I am envied by Angels and I am Priceless.
When you know who you are and what you are truly worth you can never be poor.
Know who you are and be RICHER TODAY!

5. Understand the Value of Time.
Being Rich is having Money.
Being Wealthy is having TIME.
Having Time is always more important than having money.
When you understand this fact you will learn to make better use of your TIME.
You can always make more money but you can never make more time.
Use your time wisely and you will be RICHER today.

For more detailed lessons on being Wealthy feel free to call me for lessons @ 410-818-9355.
My lessons cost a fee but the Value you receive is priceless.

Think and Implement Daily
Barry Dillah

The Truth about Love

What is Love?
Is Love a Feeling?
Is Love an Attachment?
Is Love a Desire?

Some define love as a strong emotional feeling AND attachment.
However this is not entirely true.

Have you seen a movie about Love?
When was the last time you saw a Romantic Comedy?

Love in our Society is normally connected and associated with Lust, Desire, Attachment, Jealously, Pain, Worry, Need and Sadness, just to name a few other feelings and emotions.

So, here is my TRUTH on Love.
Love is PURE when it is selfless.
Love has no Lust for Lust is a wanting of something while Love has no want.
Love has no attachment for Love is about freedom and letting go.
Love has no Jealously for Jealously is FEAR and Love has no Fear.
Love has no Pain for to Truly Love means to feel no pain.
Love has no Worry for Love is secure.
Love has no Need; to have True Love is to have Everything.
Love has no Sadness for Love is pure Joy.

Love is Pure only when it is not associated with any other feeling that pollutes your LOVE.

Do YOU truly LOVE?
Love is not what most people think it is.
If everyone TRULY LOVED each other there would be no war.
There would be no crime.
There would be no hurt.
There would be no pain.
There would be no Jealously.
There would be no worry.

TRUE LOVE is unconditional.
TRUE LOVE is letting go.
TRUE LOVE is freedom.
TRUE LOVE is not about yourself.

Anything other than PURE LOVE is not LOVE.

When you love someone, Love them.
Love is Timeless.
Love is Forgiving.
Love is Unconditional.
God is Love.

Love is pure only when it is not contaminated with other feelings - Barry Dillah
 

Think and Implement Daily.
Barry Dillah 

What we all want.

What do you want?
Most people want Safety and Security.















There are two paths to Achieving Safety and Security in your Life:
1. Find a Job and seek approval for the rest of your Life.
2. Be an Entrepreneur and take control of your Life.

Let's look at these choices a bit closer:

Choice #1 Find a Job and seek approval for the rest of your Life.

• You must First Find a JOB.
• You must ALWAYS seek Approval from someone else.
• You must work a schedule dictated by someone else.
• Your Safety and Security are always in someone else's control.

Choice #2 Be an Entrepreneur and take control of your Life.

• You must Decide to become an Entrepreneur - You don't have to FIND it.
• You ALWAYS control the decisions you make without having to seek approval.
• You work your own schedule.
• Your Safety and Security are ALWAYS in YOUR control.

Think about driving a car.
Which of the Options below makes YOU FEEL BETTER?
A. You are the driver and have control of your Safety and Security.
B. You are the passenger and have no control of your safety and security.

I would choose option A.

80% of the population want Safety and Security but they decided to put that BASIC NEED in someone else's control. It's no wonder why so many never FEEL safe and secure.

You will never feel safe and secure if someone else is in control of your Life.

It is time to re-evaluate your Life and make the changes you need to make to FEEL MORE SAFE AND SECURE! No one but YOU can make that decision for you.





 















Think and Implement Daily.
Barry Dillah

Truth about our Prayers

The Truth is singular.
Any other version of the Truth cannot be the Truth.
The truth will set you free.
The truth will empower you.
Twisting the truth will not change the TRUTH.
The truth has no other versions.

A lie does not change the TRUTH - Barry Dillah

The truth about Prayers is that WE ALL PRAY.
You don't have to be a believer to pray.
In fact, even Atheist use prayer but don't KNOW that they do.
Not believing does not change the TRUTH.





This Truth came to me in 1979 while in deep meditation. I was 14 years old at the time when I realized these Truths:
1. We all Pray.
2. We must stay connected to the source so that we receive what we pray for.
3. Everything we need is INSIDE us.

Again, let me remind you that the TRUTH is singular.

So, why do you pray and how do you pray?
We all pray because we are constantly thinking of our desires, needs, wants, wishes, dreams, hopes, and so we are constantly hoping, wishing and asking for some change in our lives.
Very few of us are satisfied with what we currently have.
We are constantly praying. We were designed to pray. Prayer is how we all get what we want in life.

The truth is the truth. We all pray.

The problem is that not all prayers are answered the way we want it to be answered and this is because we all pray in different ways. Some of us get everything we ask for while others get nothing they ask for.
Why is this? You may ask.

Most people keep praying for the same thing on a daily basis and after some time they stop praying or asking for what they want because they didn't get what they asked for soon enough. If you want something bad enough you would never stop asking for it.
There are two reasons you never receive what you pray for.
1. You stop wanting it.
2. You keep asking because you lack Faith.

Are you confused? Well, let me explain.
You stop wanting it means that your focus has changed and you no longer really want what you thought you wanted. Since your thoughts have changed, your prayer has been cancelled.
Why do you keep asking? You keep asking because you never TRULY BELIEVE or YOU LACK FAITH that your prayer was heard the first time you asked. Lack of belief and Lack of Faith leaves you BLIND and YOU will never SEE your prayers answered. You should read that again and again until you realise the TRUTH about yourself.

When I pray, I ask once and I already know that I have received what I have asked for. No need to keep asking. If WE truly want something bad enough WE never take our focus off the thing we want.
The TRUTH IS THE TRUTH.

You will never have your prayers answered if you are disconnected from the source that fulfills your request. We all pray but only some of us receive what we pray for. You must be connected to receive.

Look outside at the grass and trees. The grass and trees grow without any effort. Life is effortless when you are connected to the source. Cut a branch off the tree and eventually the branch that is now disconnected dries up and dies. The connected branches keep receiving and keep growing because they are connected to the source that feeds and nourishes life.

Are you TRULY connected or are you really disconnected?
Do you TRULY have FAITH?
Are your prayers being answered?
If you are reading this I hope that you will be inspired to become TRULY connected to your source.
There is no lack when you get connected.

Don't be blind anymore. Have Faith and SEE!

We were born with EVERYTHING inside us.
Don't look at the stars and into space to see the universe because what you seek is inside of you.
YOU are Everything! There is a Universe inside of you.
If you are TRULY BLESSED you will one day have the wisdom to know the TRUTH.
You need nothing because you have everything.
When you learn to rid yourself of wanting you will understand that your prayer was always answered because the asking and the receiving is built INSIDE of YOU.
We are one with everything.
When You hurt, I hurt. When You feel JOY, I feel JOY. We are connected only with LOVE.
If you do not Love me, you cannot feel what I feel.
Love one another.

I hope that this wisdom adds value to you.
Your value is not based on the size of your bank account as society wants you to believe. Money is not the True measure of your worth.
You are PRICELESS. Know your TRUE worth.
The Truth is singular.
Know who you are and stop listening to what society wishes you to think and believe.

I am that I am. Nothing more needs to be said. Nothing more is needed. I am that I am.

Don't forget to share this with your LOVED ones!

Think and Implement Daily.
Barry Dillah

Keep Kids Physically Active

I was doing my daily walk on my treadmill earlier today while I was looking at the Living Well Network. They featured a guy about 22 years old and close to 400 LBS. You guessed it, he was trying to loose weight.
Seems like some people just wake up one day and wondered what happened to their health.
This reminded me about a blog I wrote several weeks ago about paying attention.
If you don't pay attention to your health you will pay the price.

Here is my take on what's happening today.
Kids are less active than WE used to be when I was growing up.
I see very few kids doing any type of outdoor activities.
Looks like they wake up and go to school.
They then come home and do home work.
If kids do anything else its on an electronic device.
We have the smart phones, Playstation, Xbox, Wii, Nintendo, etc.
All kids do today is SIT and PLAY.

What happened to GOING OUTSIDE and PLAYING with your friends?
What happened to PHYSICAL PLAY?

With so much less physical play activity it's no wonder kids are putting on more weight.
I remember growing up and 99% of all kids were very slim. The other 1% were not really that big anyway. Today we see less than 40% slim and more than 40% overweight with 20% seriously OBESE.

I understand that we are living in different times and you just cannot let kids today go outside and PLAY without some sick psychopath attempting to take them. However, it's the grown-ups that must make the effort to take kids outside. Guess what, it will be good for your health too.

Well, some will say that parents are SO BUSY working and we have no time to PLAY.
So, here is what I have to say about that statement.
How much does a SICK KID cost?
I suggest that we work less and play more with kids.
What's the point working to PAY MEDICAL BILLS?
Adults need to learn how to manage their time wisely.
Do not loose focus on the important things in life.
Do not forget the important PEOPLE in our lives.

If we do not teach our kids to stay active and MAKE IT A HABIT to stay active we will have a HUGE PRICE to pay later in life.

Eat healthy and Stay physically Active.

Times have changed.
Remember going outside and riding your bike all day long?
Remember playing outside with real friends and playing real games?
Remember playing and falling and getting cut and bruised and thinking it was FUN?
Remember sweating and drinking TAP water and not dying?

I could go on and on....but you get the point.

Funny, but my son just asked me "DAD, DO YOU EVER WORK?"

Looks like the time I spend with him is always QUALITY TIME doing activities WE BOTH like doing.

Go on trail walks. Walk around the Mall. Wrestle and PLAY fight. Ride bikes. Just DO something physical. Get a treadmill and walk while watching your favorite show.

Kids stay active when they see you being active.

Find a way to stay active and everyone will live a healthier life.

Think and Implement Daily
Barry Dillah

Learn to Share

When I think of new ideas, I start with the intent of adding value to others. I hope that every topic and everything I write will in some way help at least one person.
Now, I'm thinking and hoping the the people that read what I write likes it enough to share it with everyone in their circle.
With technology today, I can write something that could change and improve someones life and have it shared all over the world in seconds.
When I'm done with this blog topic someone could be reading it on their iPad thousand of miles away. You could be reading this while you are on break from your workday and have something to inspire you for the rest of your day. You could be reading this on a park bench on your smart phone and it could help you in your life today. You could be reading this on your laptop and you think that you know someone who could benefit from what you just read. Why not share it?

What is even more important is that if you read and learn and you are inspired by anything you learn in life, why not SHARE what you know with everyone you know.
Who would you like to help?

With social media today, YOU can help change someones life just by sharing.
When we work together to help everyone we know, to improve the thinking of everyone we know, this world would be a much better place for everyone.
Share and lift up everyone you know.
I know that I appreciate all the people in my life that SHARE with me what they know.

Remember, none on us is as smart as all of us.

People need to SHARE ideas that improve the lives of everyone in this world.
So, I think and write.
I think of ways to add value to people.
If you like something you read please share THIS BLOG with everyone.
You can help others by sharing.
You can change a life by sharing.
You can Improve a life by sharing.
You can make a difference in this world by sharing.

Think and Implement Daily
Barry Dillah